I’m dreaming of a…moderately
creepy Christmas. By Bob “Sully” Sullivan, Host of “THE COALITION” on
NEWRADIO –600 KOGO
IF MONEY WERE NO OBJECT,
WHAT LENGTHS WOULD YOU GO TO FIND THE MAN OR WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS? WHAT IS THE
BEST WAY TO FIND A MATE HERE IN SAN DIEGO?
Marc Paskin he
dude who put up the “All I want for Christmas is a Latina girlfriend” billboard
in Barrio Logan, says he has received 2,000 email notes from people responding
to his
The La Jolla millionaire’s
attention-grabbing act has gone viral as well—with nearly 1,000 websites noting
the holiday wish. But sometime Friday the board was defaced—with someone ripping off the bottom
half that shows his email address. And over the weekend, the entire sign was
removed.
Is this the state of love in
2012?
I haven't dated for a while, but
the last time I was looking -  getting a girlfriend didn't require much more
than making a few flyers with the word "LONELY" printed above a bunch of
tear-away phone numbers and posting them on coffee shop corkboards with the used
futon ads.
Is it so hard for a guy with
penciled-on eyebrows to racially profile the love of his life that he has to
resort to billboards?
Oh wait, he's still on AOL.
IF MONEY WERE NO OBJECT,
WHAT LENGTHS WOULD YOU GO TO FIND THE MAN OR WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS? WHAT IS THE
BEST WAY TO FIND A MATE HERE IN SAN DIEGO?
BUT WAS HAT HE DID SO VERY
WRONG OR RACIST FOR THAT MATTER?
What exactly did this guy do
wrong? He put it out there.  Isn’t that EXACLTLY what folks do on eHarmony and
Craig’s List?
In fact here are a few of
TODAY’s Craig’s List postings:
·    White man wanted by Black
Woman - 25 (San Diego)
Date: 2012-12-10, 1:47PM
PST
I am a cute black girl with a
preference for white men. I am looking for dating, friends, potential
relationship, going out.
I am real, send a pic for pic :)
thank you
·    Any overweight lovers - 39
(la mesa)
Date: 2012-12-10, 3:08PM
PST
Hello I'm a 39 year old plus
size female looking to get to know an overweight man if that's you leave me a
message and we can go from there.
How are these ads any
different?
DO
YOU THINK THIS GUYS IS CREEPY FOR PUTTING THIS AD
UP?
WHAT THE DATING PROS
SAY…
Embrace the
Familiar
Find your favorite places to go
and get to know everyone there. People who are social are always meeting new
people and introducing old friends to new friends. Establish yourself at a place
you like to go, where everyone knows you, and meet new girls there. Introducing
a new girl you meet to other groups of people creates value by showing you are a
social person.
Escape the Friend
Zone
Stay out of the friend zone.
Once you are in, it's hard to get out. I hear a lot of single guys in San Diego
say things like: "We are great friends but I don't know if she wants anything
more..." usually she doesn't, because you already blew it. You must establish
yourself as interested in her as more then a friend from the
beginning.
One of the best ways to do this
is to touch her. Don't molest her in the club or start grinding on her without
asking, that's a great way to get a drink poured on you or thrown out of the
club. I'm talking about normal friendly touch. If you watch guys who are
successful with women they generally touch a lot and most of them don't even
realize they do it. It is natural and appealing to
women.
Another way to ensure you never
start out in the friend zone is tease her. Be aware there is stuff out there
that tells you to be rude to girls to get their attention and lower their value.
That doesn't work with girls who are secure with themselves. The right kind of
teasing is fun for everyone, and it has her know you like her. If it works she
will usually be laughing at what you said, and might challenge you back with
some witty teasing of her own.
Stay
Relaxed
Don't be too overly excited to
talk to a girl. This is known as eager beaver syndrome, and it plagues many men
in San Diego. Talk to her with the same level of confidence you talk to your guy
friends, and at the same time allow yourself to be interested in her as a woman.
Whatever you do don't be weird around her just because she is pretty. Attractive
women can judge in seconds if the guy they are talking to is used to talking to
attractive women.
If you forget everything else I
said, remember this... have fun! Girls head out to San Diego bars and clubs to have fun. Being a fun, entertaining
person is one of the most redeeming qualities a man can have. People want to be
around people who are having fun.
Insider
Tip:
Don't ever use a pick-up line you read, unless you get it signed off by three
girls first. These store-bought lines are usually lame and fall flat because
they lack intelligence and creativity.
If anyone knows
Marc, please videotape the moment when he realizes he could
have saved several thousand dollars had he known about the existence of
Craigslist, OKCupid, AdultFriendFinder, or Naughty America's "Latin Adultery"
channel.
Gracias! Giddy
up.